Off the Record. On Your Side. When no one else gets it, we do. The system won’t save you – We help you save yourself.
Welcome to Support That Doesn’t Sugarcoat (or suck)
We’re not handing you a PDF or e-book and wishing you luck on your way.
We show up for you—fully, consistently, and with real investment. Your case matters to us, and we’re here to walk with you step by step, because we know exactly how isolating and overwhelming this process can be when you’re doing it alone.
You Might Be in a High-Conflict Custody Battle If…
⟡ Your evidence folder has subfolders… with subfolders
⟡ Your lawyer costs more than your mortgage
⟡ You’ve cried mid-text but still replied “per the order…”
⟡ Your co-parent calls themselves “reasonable” but serves chaos
⟡ You’ve fantasized about redacting your own emotions
Where We Come In
(Because This Sh*t Is Hard)
Case Review + Strategy Session
Let’s figure out where you stand—and where to go next.
Send us your court documents, text threads, and any evidence you’ve collected. We’ll review it all and give you clear, honest feedback on what matters, what’s missing, and how to move forward with strength and strategy.
We help you understand what your court documents say and work with you to build a clear strategy for your next steps. You’ll always be in control—we guide, you decide.
Evidence Organization & Documentation Coaching
Turn the chaos into a clear, powerful story.
We’ll help you organize your texts, screenshots, emails, incident logs, and records in a way that the court can actually follow. You’ll walk away with a clean timeline and a folder that makes your truth undeniable.
We show you how to sort, label, and present your evidence in a way that makes your story easy to follow. You stay in the driver’s seat—we simply help you build a system that works.
Live Text Message Support (Add-On or Standalone)
When it’s hitting the fan—you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Need help responding to a toxic message? At an exchange and it’s going sideways? Text us. This is real-time coaching for the moments that make or break your peace (and your case).
We offer live text coaching during stressful moments like exchanges, co-parent communication, or big deadlines. We’re not attorneys—we’re your support system when it matters most.
Communication Strategy + Messaging Edits
Say the right thing—and protect your credibility.
We help you respond to messages in a way that keeps you calm, clear, and court-ready. No more second-guessing if you sound too emotional or too cold. You’ll learn how to respond like the judge is reading—because they probably are.
We help you reword your own messages so they come across clear, calm, and court-appropriate. We do not send messages for you or impersonate you—your voice stays yours.
Testimony Prep + Court Roleplay
Feel confident when it’s your turn to speak.
We’ll help you practice answering tough questions, staying grounded, and telling your story with clarity and strength. Whether it’s mediation or trial, you’ll walk in knowing what to expect and how to hold your own.
We help you practice how to answer questions, stay composed, and feel more prepared for court or mediation. We don’t provide legal advice—we help you find your voice and stay grounded.
Before You Leave: Safe Exit Planning
If you’re still with your abuser, this is for you.
Leaving isn’t simple—and it isn’t safe without a plan. We’ll help you quietly prepare your documents, protect your child, gather essentials, and create a step-by-step strategy to leave safely and smartly.
Court Form & Declaration Review + Guidance (not legal advice)
Tell your story in a way the court will actually hear.
We’ll review your declarations and forms, help you tighten your language, remove anything that could be used against you, and guide you to present your truth clearly and powerfully. You write it—we help you make it strong.
We review what you’ve already written and offer suggestions to make it clearer and more effective. We don’t complete forms for you, and we don’t give legal opinions—we guide, you write.
Ongoing Coaching (Monthly or Weekly)
This isn’t a quick fix. This is long-game support.
For parents in long-term custody cases or ongoing chaos. Includes regular check-ins, communication help, strategy sessions, emotional support, and the accountability to stay strong even when the system wears you down.
We’ll show you how family court really works—the part no one tells you, but every mom deserves to know. We built what we wish had existed back then—for you. You deserve to have an ace in your back pocket.
We want to be clear:
We absolutely recognize—and fully support—the need for an attorney in high-conflict custody cases.
But here’s the truth: an attorney alone isn’t enough.
What you’re facing takes more than court filings and legal arguments. It takes clarity, strategy, emotional stamina, and someone who actually understands what it feels like to be in your position.
We’re not here to replace your attorney. We’re here to be the rest of your team.
Most attorneys don’t have time to teach you these things—and if they do, it’ll cost you.
Every email you send, every text you forward, every phone call adds up.
By the time you learn what we teach, you could spend tens—if not hundreds—of thousands of dollars.
We’re here to fill that gap: strategic support, emotional clarity, and hands-on coaching—without draining your entire future.
Package I
$299- A safe, private coaching session for those preparing to leave a dangerous or controlling relationship. You don’t have to do it alone. You just need a plan and support—and this is it.
- 60-minute 1:1 Exit Strategy Session | Custody Preparation Overview | What to Gather Checklist | Digital Safety Guidance | Abuse Documentation Guidance | Court-Safe Messaging Scripts | “Day-Of” Exit Strategy | Child-Focused Support | Resource List | Access to the Private Support Group
Package II
$649- For those who feel overwhelmed, unheard, or stuck—and know it’s time to get clear.
This is your starting point. We’ll help you make sense of the chaos, identify what actually matters to the court, and build a calm, strategic foundation to move forward with confidence. - 90 – minute 1:1 Strategy Session | Document Intake & Pattern Review | Starter Evidence Folder Setup | Messaging Support (Up to 10 messages reviewed) | Family Court 101 Guide | Access to the Private Support Group
Package III
$1499- For the parent deep in the war zone of family court who are done being silenced and ready to fight back—with strategy, not chaos.
This is the all-in package for the parent who’s documenting everything, building up the case, and making sure the truth is impossible to ignore. - 90-minute Deep Dive Strategy Session | Full Review of Court Orders & Key Communications | Evidence File Setup + Structure Support | 30+ Message Reviews | Testimony Coaching + Roleplay (60 min) | Declaration & Document Feedback (Up to 3 Drafts) | 4 Weekly Coaching Calls (30–45 min each) | 4 Weeks of Live Text Support | Access to the Private Support Group
Package IV
$2499- For the parent deep in the war zone of family court who are done being silenced and ready to fight back—with strategy, not chaos.
This is the all-in package for the parent who’s documenting everything, building up the case, and making sure the truth is impossible to ignore. - 90-minute Deep Dive Strategy Session | Complete Review of Court Orders, Communication, & History | Evidence File Setup + Hands-On Support | Ongoing Messaging Strategy (up to 75) | 3 Full Testimony Prep + Roleplay Sessions | Declaration & Draft Feedback (Up to 5 Documents) | 8 Weekly Coaching Sessions (30–45 min) | 8 Weeks of Live Text Support | Includes “The Exit Plan” Tools (if needed) | Access to the Private Support Group
Not Sure Where To Start?
Our mission is to support parents navigating high-conflict custody battles—strategically, emotionally, and powerfully.
Every case is different, and so are the needs that come with it. If none of the packages fit exactly what you’re looking for, we’re happy to customize something that matches your situation and still honors the value of the work we do.
“I felt like I was drowning in court papers and anxiety. Off The Record Child Custody helped me understand what actually mattered, organize my evidence, and respond without feeding the chaos. I finally feel like I’m in control of my own case.”
Renee
“Before working with Off The Record CC, I was reactive and scared. Now I know how to document, how to protect my child, and how to speak like the judge is reading every word. This coaching changed everything for me.”
Latoya
“I’ve spent thousands on attorneys who never explained what was going on. Off The Record Child Custody gave me more clarity in one session than years of legal bills. I wish I’d found this sooner. Thankful for everything I’ve learned.”
Drew
Let go of fear. Lock in your purpose.
Take Your Power Back.
Running on screenshots and sheer willpower.
Control the story, or the story controls you.
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Disclaimer: Off The Record Child Custody provides strategic coaching, emotional support, and organizational tools for individuals navigating high-conflict custody cases. We are not attorneys, paralegals, licensed therapists, or certified domestic violence advocates, and no information provided by Off The Record Child Custody should be interpreted as legal advice, therapy, mental health counseling, or a substitute for licensed professional services. We do not offer legal advice, legal representation, or legal document preparation in any capacity. Any references made to legal procedures, court strategies, or document types are for general educational purposes only. You are solely responsible for your own legal decisions, filings, court appearances, and outcomes. Off The Record Child Custody does not guarantee any legal results, court outcomes, or custody decisions. Use of our services does not create an attorney-client relationship, and communications with Off The Record Child Custody are not protected under attorney-client privilege. By engaging with Off The Record Child Custody, its website, services, materials, or representatives, you acknowledge and agree that: 1.) You understand we are not licensed to practice law in any jurisdiction. 2.) You will consult with a licensed attorney for any legal advice or action. 3.) You release Off The Record Child Custody and its representatives from all liability related to your legal case, custody matter, court filings, communications, and outcomes. 4.) You understand that our services are not regulated, licensed, or certified by any governmental agency or bar association. Always consult a licensed attorney in your state for legal advice tailored to your situation. Off The Record Child Custody does not retain or archive client messages, session notes, or submitted materials. All communications are deleted after coaching use and are not stored permanently. We do this to protect your privacy and maintain confidentiality. Please note: we are not bound by attorney-client or therapist-client privilege, and while all coaching is confidential, there are limits to that confidentiality. If we receive information that indicates: Active child abuse or neglect, a credible threat of harm to yourself or others, or any situation that would legally require intervention, we may be obligated to report this to the appropriate authorities, even without your consent. Our goal is to support you—but also to protect vulnerable individuals if safety is at risk. By using our services, you acknowledge and agree to these boundaries.